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*ucilleLucie
writes:I really love/hate this guy, but at the same time. he has caused so much trouble for me during the year. He claims that he hates me, and I know it. He calls me a horrible names. Before that we had sex, but he had a gf. but i told her. So he hates me. But I Really cant get him out of my head and I dont know what to do. I think of him Everyday. I hate the guy because what drama he caused but have feelings for him. I dont want him in my head at all. its irriating. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2013): I think the reason you can't get him out of your head is BECAUSE of how he is, not in spite of it. I don't think you would be nearly so stuck on him if he had treated you better. He used you for a fuck and then said he hated you, what better way to screw with your head and make you want him?
This is a perfect example of why guys insist that women are attracted to jerks. This guy isn't succeeding with "assertiveness" or "confidence" or any of the other excuses I always hear women give for it. This guy is really just being a jerk. It is working flawlessly.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 March 2013):
 You need to learn to ignore him and focus on what an idiot he is. I mean in reality he treats you like crap and you "love" him? Why ?
He calls you names and you can't stop thinking about him? Why?
Did you know he had a GF before you had sex? Or did you find out after? Either way, you can only really be accountable for YOUR own actions.
And just because he had SEX with you, doesn't mean he likes you or love you. Obviously he didn't as he already had a gf.
Want more for yourself in a guy, then one that will use you and then abuse you.
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