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writes:I've been cheating on two guys for around 1 year.. i feel terrible for doing it, but i love them both and dont know what to do, or who to choose. one i've known for two years, i met him on the internet and we started to fall in love with each other. bt he would always hange his mind and end it every few months and he broke my heart badly. He finally ended it properly when he moved away to sweden and started taking drugs. Thinking it was over i got into a relationship with another guy and fell in love with him. But always had feelings for my ex. Then a month later my ex wanted me back, so i told him about the other guy and he begged me to dump him. So i told him i would.. and i tried to.. but i love the other guy as well. It kills me to go from one to the other and not have them no, but i would die if they found out, i would be alone and that scares me more than anything. I love my ex so much, ive met him 3 times and had sex with him and it was amazing, i feel like he is my soul mate. But when he goes back home to his country i feel alone again so i go to the other guy. I do love the other guy, but not as much as i love my ex. so i guess i have two boyriends, which is wrong. i really want to confess but i dont know how, there is no way i could kee either one o them if they knew how long i was cheating on them both. I'm so messed up and i hate myself for it. I want to move and live with my ex and forget about the other guy, but its hard.. because i do love him and he makes me happy aswell. what do i do?
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reader, Sarah_Sar  +, writes (16 September 2008):
Darling, don't even think of choosing.. You cannot choose. I also have two boyfriends, and it is impossible to choose. Try not to think at this too much. You will get use to it. It is not a crime, and you are not the first woman in this situation.. So chill, and take it easy..
The time will decide for you, and after a very short time you will be able to decide which is the best for you
Sarah
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reader, Sarah_Sar +, writes (16 September 2008):
Darling, don't even think of choosing.. You cannot choose. I also have two boyfriends, and it is impossible to choose. Try not to think at this too much. You will get use to it. It is not a crime, and you are not the first woman in this situation.. So chill, and take it easy..
The time will decide for you, and after a very short time you will be able to decide which is the best for you
Sarah
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reader, Advicehunny +, writes (5 June 2007):
Do not cheat on you bf try and be honest will you 2 bfs and confes because they might find out themselfs try speaking to both of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): long story short. you have to choose. its cruel not to, you're making a fool of them both. you say you love them but if you really did then you wouldn't do this to either of them. you say you're afraid of being alone, thats your clue- you aren't thinking about them, you're thinking about yourself and it isn't fair
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