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writes:my ex broke up with me about two months ago and we hadn't seen each other since but talked most days on msn. but since being back at college, i get the feeling that he still loves me, or at least has feelings for me. the first time i saw him, i went to leave but he pulled me back and gave a me a big hug. and then he came back to find me about ten minutes later and we were talking and messing about. i saw him later on that day and he got my wrists and started clapping my hands together...and he didn't let go for ages. he also goes on about the people i hang around with now at college, there's only four girls on my course, so a lot of my new friends are male. he also said something and then said, 'if we were still together'. he also picked me up and carried me down the corridor and then we were messing about, and our bodies are always really close together.also, he still looks at me the same, and i just get the feeling that sometimes he's really considering whether or not to kiss me, just from the look in his eyes...is there still something there, and what should i do, i don't want to make an idiot of myself or get hurt again.
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reader, Jupiter19  +, writes (23 September 2007):
Sometimes people make mistakes. I don't really know the reasons behind your breakup, but sometimes we think we are making the best decision based on circumstances and then later realise it was a mistake. It doesn't sound like he is a jerk. Is he respectful to you? If you love him still, tell him. It has been two months since you parted ways. It's not the end of the world to try again...especially if you still feel connected. Breakups are often painful when you love someone very much. You don't have to be bitter. We are only human. Take it slow this time around. If he is a good guy, give him a second chance. Lean in and kiss him!!! Good Luck!!!
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reader, Troubled Teen +, writes (23 September 2007):
I agree an ex is an ex for a reason but i also believe that everybody deserves a second chance. You know him better than anyone, you know what the signs were before so just sit down with him and tell him how you feel, you could be suprised by his reaction but either way good or bad you've had the courage to confront him and guys love confidence in a girl, so my advice is go for it and no matter what, your always going to get hurt in your life but what you want to be asking yourself is do i want to carry on wondering and thinking what if or do i want to get it off my chest and know!
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (23 September 2007):
 i say it a million times but an ex is an ex for a reason!!
he probably does look at you the same because when you're not with someone anymore you feel as though you're missing out and therefore the temptation is there but then you realsize it's wrong and the problems which were there are still there.
my suggestion - steer clear. move on and get over him and don't give in to temptantion.
good luck
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