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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex boyfriend have been dating for a year and we recently broke up for good and I still love him. We broke up because we were both stressing about things and decided to take a break. The reason we never got back together is because his friend likes me and he thought me and him where messing around when we weren't. So a week later he dates my friend but just uses her to get me jealous which worked and hurt me a lot. But he dumped her and now he's coming back to me saying that he really misses me and asking if I moved on. I told him no I don't have a boyfriend because I'm not ready for another relationship, when he says then do you want to mess around with me until you are. Honestly because I still love him I agreed , so we had sex a couple of times and when we were done he would just stare at me and hold me like he used to. But now I'm confused on whether he still has feelings for me or is this just a trick to stay in my pants?
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reader, llifton +, writes (21 May 2011):
 in all honesty, sounds like this relationship has a lot of issues. why was he under the assumption you messed around with his friend? and why then, would that prompt him to be such a guy, who would hook up with your friend, just to hurt you? not only that, but what kind of crappy friend would do that to you right after you two broke up? love isn't about getting even and hurting those you care about, even if you, yourself, got hurt. he's got a lot of growing up to do.maybe he's under the assumption that since you told him you're not ready to be in a relationship just yet, he wants to continue to hook up with you in the hopes that when you are ready, you'll be with him? does this sound likely? if not, he's just using you for sex, flat out. him holding you after sex and looking into your eyes and all that.. i wouldn't read too much into that. without knowing your boyfriend, it's hard to say either way what his true intentions are, though.
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