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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:lost my virginity the other nightwent quite well however i didnt feel nothing!i mean it hurt for a bit then was fine, but every1 seems 2 enjoy sex and i felt nothing! is this normal Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206 +, writes (9 February 2007):
 Absolutely, especially if you were with a guy around your age who has no experience in how to make a woman feel good. The thing about first time sex is that it's full of presure. You probably couldn't relax and if you can't relax you can't give in to the amazing feelings sex has to offer you. Next time will be better and if it's not why not suggest a tutorial night with your boyfriend whereby he teaches you how he likes to be pleasured and then you return the favour. You can learn a lot from each other, trust me! And remember to keep sex safe!
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (9 February 2007):
 Yeah its normal...a lot of women don't reach orgasm from having sex. Sad but true, either that or maybe your boyfriend wasn't that impressive. (but you should know). Though it could be a combination of both. Next time you have sex really engage your mind into it and get into the groove and just relax and try to enjoy yourself. Pleasure from sex isn't necessarily gaurantteed, you sort of have to make it happen starting with your mind. The more you have sex you'll get the hang of it and you'll get into that frame of mind, if you get yourself in the mood then you're more likely to enjoy it.
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