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I had sex for the first time, but it was months ago, can this blister I've spotted be in any way related, help please?

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Question - (14 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a 16 year old girl, who has only ever had one serious relationship, not that u can call it serious as its high school. We took our time to do things like kissing and ...fondling of lower regions, anyways we jumped the line and had sex back in April/May. It wasn't making love, it was just...pants halfway down etc etc. I've finally almost come to terms with it, it hit me pretty hard and didn't wanna talk about it. We used protection of course. I have received all doses of the Gardisil Vaccine which means i cannot get the 4 major types of genital herpes that cause cervical cancer. My boyfriend and i didn't do any form of sex after that except the odd round of oral, and we broke up back in September...weeks after ANYTHING at all had happened of any form of sexual nature.

I was recently ill with stomach pains especially in the lower front which i know is my uterus and all that fun stuff. It went away this weekend after a day or so of agony, and this morning i noticed something. It looked like a blister..a tiny little almost white head that was sore. I checked again this afternoon and it looks really red and is on a bump, the little white thing is gone and now it looks like an empty little pore. (I'm really really sorry for the graphic nature of this I'm just really scared and don't want to tell my mum)i only have one so im hoping that maybe it's just a friction blister and will go away soon...can you please help me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007):

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isnt herpes consisting of A LOT of iddy biddy things? ... how could he have herpes, we were eachothers firsts for EVERYTHING!! first kiss, first real relationship..and the last time anything like that happened was eons ago. shouldnt it have come up really soon after. its going away now...it was only really prominant for a day.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

You are misinformed. Guardisil will not guard you from contracting herpes virus but human papilloma virus (HPV)wich is a different kind of virus. There is no vaccine for herpes just yet. The symptoms you describe are similar to those of the herpes virus and since you had oral sex you are very likely to have contracted it. People get herpes from oral sex, it doesn't matter if you used a condom. Go to your doctor to get prescribed and learn about the disease.

Don't panic. It happens to lots of teens.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

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its right between the lips at mid top ish

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