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writes:I just sex for the first time in weekend , but as we got into it I went to put comdom on and i wasn't really stiff, and we kept playing around trying to get it hard enough, finally did get it on most of the way, but then after ages I still hadn't cumed, and then she tried sucking it for a while and still didn't happen, like this was for about an hour. Just wondering why this would happen, is it deep down i don't like this girl?She said it was ok but I felt pretty bad about it. Reply to this Question
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reader, JUSTHANNAH  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 Peer pressure hun...I am sure you will meet the right girl then there will be no stopping you. Some times when you try too hard you dont find Love. Relax go out with your mates to a club or wine bar You will find someone hun trust me just relax when you do Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I was kinda OK bout being virhin still, but it's pretty hard around mates and at work.
Thanks for your help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I was kinda OK about being virgin still, but it's hard at work and around friends.
Thanks for you help :)
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reader, JUSTHANNAH +, writes (12 August 2007):
Hi hun
No Rule sayou cant be a Virgin at 21 .When you meet the right Lady you will know & Everything will be fine.I think it was the alcohol & Lack of feeling attraction to this woman try not to panic Nerves wont help either.Best to put this incident out of your mind .
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for comments :)
I meet this girl on net and had become quite good friends really, finally got the courage to meet and we met in town one night and had few drinks, and she came back to my house cos she lives in country and we just went to bed and were just talking but then she made the move and it kinda just happened, I just wanted to be friends and now we've hardly talked, and this happened 3 weeks ago, and this will sound bad but i'm 21 and thought I had to since i'm quite an old virgin
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reader, JUSTHANNAH +, writes (11 August 2007):
If you dont really like her Why are you Having or wanting to Have Sex with her?? Sex should be wanted by both of you .People are not machines you cant just turn emotion on just for a quickie ...I suggest you find someone you truely fancy then relax and enjoy the moment
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reader, xxhoney69xx +, writes (11 August 2007):
 sometimes this happens it is acually realli common and the worst thing to do is get yourself frustrated about it this can embarris the pair of you. its happened to a guy i used to dat alot and i told him to laugh it off, its not ur fault or the girls fault just try pleasuring her in other ways heavy foreplay is always good. stress, alcohol and drugs can effect erections in different ways, just dont dwell on it and have fun with it hope it helps !!!!!!!! x
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