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female
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anonymous
writes:i just have a quick question, i just had an abortion 24 hours ago, and for anybody that dont know how an abortion feels is painful, cramping feeling, and constant bleeding, my stupid ass boyfriend is asking me to please him sexually regardless of the fact of how i feel, he's saying im overreacting and that its not that serious and that im selfish, my question is am i wrong for this, for saying no to him cause im in pain and dont feel so good?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): Dump him! he is a complete jerk and sooooo disrespectful. no good guy would ever do that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): Kick him to the curb. If he is insensitive to you in a time such as this, it is clear to me that he doesn't love you.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (7 February 2011):
 He`s a pig. You can do much better.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 February 2011):
 So why are you with him? He sounds dreadful.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 February 2011):
 My goodness, that is one of the most selfish things I've ever heard. What a pig. I'm sorry, but there's no other way to say it. He is being a selfish jerk. It's beyond selfish, it's a horrible thing to do. Next time he has the flu pester him to pleasure you and then call him selfish for not working at it. Do you have someplace you can stay for awhile? The question isn't are you wrong for not wanting have sex after a seriously invasive medical procedure that's both physically and mentally tolling, the question is should you dump this horse's ass for someone who cares more about your well-being than his orgasm?
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reader, amandab  +, writes (6 February 2011):
not at all, you are not wrong...where is the respect for you here, i feel so sad to read this and the fact you have to even ask the question, my heart goes out to you. please think about counselling.
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