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36-40,
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writes:hi friends, please advice me on what to do. I met this girl in my working place. she work as a waitress and I work as a bartender in the same hotel. she always stare at me starting from the day I got employed and the way she talk to me. our friendship is cool even guests and other employees call us husband and wife. whenever we stay alone, she always ask me if my love for her is genuine and i told her yes my love is real. i want to go into relationship with her, but it seems someone is already in her heart. I asked her about the guy that always call her every minute of the day, the way she attend the guy calls even if she missed call his calls, she will get angry. she said the guy is her school boyfriend and she's not serious with him, in fact she doesn't see any serious guy for now, they are just friends and nothing behind it, but according to her schoolmate, they said she doesn't play with the guy and he took care of her in school. I asked her what she feel about me, she replied "I will give you answer when I go back to school" Now I want minimize the way we talk and so on but she feel am ignoring her. if she tell me the truth about the guy, I will move on, please advice me.... thanks
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (8 February 2018):
 She sounds very young and immature, OP
Maybe you should look for romance OUTSIDE your workplace so you don't end up with this kind of awkward drama where you work.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 February 2018):
 Talk to her, communication is the key here. It sounds like she is keeping you around for the attention and the back up plan. That is totally not fair on you and you deserve to know where you stand with her. If she feels you are not giving her enough attention then tell her it is because she doesn't know what she wants and you are giving her some space. Tell her it is hurtful for you to be around her because you have deep feelings and they are not getting returned. If she needs to wait until she gets back to school to give you an answer that means she is either messing you around for the attention, or she is keeping you around in case her other plan falls through.
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