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writes:Ok, so I go to school with this guy who is a year younger than me and has a crush on my best friend... well I think I may like him, but I don't know why. Everytime I think about him, I see him with my friend, and I'm the one who kinda got them together... But everytime he looks at me, I think my heart skips a beat. And I'm just not sure what to do. I have a boyfriend that I care about a lot, but he lives in a different state. So what do I do? Do I tell my friend that I think I like this guy, or do I just ignore it and stay with my current boyfriend?xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTahnks for y'alls help...
this is what ended up happening:
I ahd told a couple of my friends how I felt, for comfort, and they all told me to just see what happens so I did.
I realized that I needed to find someone who lives here, so I broke up with my old boyfriend, but not to go out with this one. But last night me and my friends were all together, and this guy was "with" my best friend. Like they were on a date, but they're not going out yet.
But while we were all together I realized that I like him a lot. I told my friend about this, even though I though she liked him too. Everyone's pretty sure he really likes her and that he'll ask her out, but we don't know, and what we are currently trying to figure out, is what happens if they don't start going out?
We can't both be trying to like flirt with him and stuff... but just.. it would be really awkward if one of us ignored our feelings for this guy while the other day didn't... and I know IK like him, but she's not sure... so we think I like him more, but we kinda already tried to start getting them together... so what happens?
I don't wanna do anything to hurt my best friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): You are in school, still learning and so likewise see this as a part of your learning process in life. If u keep yourself still, u will see the results and this is what will give u peace..be still..Keep your best friend, its in our human nature to consider things of this nature in our hearts that can also deceive us..Keep your mouth and be still and u will see the true results and it will be your truth
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reader, kutie0712 +, writes (24 September 2008):
You need to tell your friend your feelings for this guy, stay with your current boyfriend. Your friend seems really into this guy so dont ruin anything but just tell her how you feel.
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