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writes:I slept witg someone and am pregnant, he lives in a different country and we are still in contact but should i tell him I'm pregnant? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Of course you should tell him! Just because he's from a different country doesn't mean you shouldn't tell him. He has a right to know, and the sooner you tell him, the better. Whether you decide to keep the baby or not, he needs to know. If you keep it, then he should do his bit as the father! You can't keep this a secret from him. And if you choose to terminate the baby, he should at least know that you had his child for a few weeks. So tell him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): You need to tell him. You need to discuss it with him - soon. First however you need to think quietly, on your own, as to all the options and scenarios first. Listen to what he has to say and then spend some time thinking again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): What are you desires at this point?
Do you want to raise a child alone or do you want him to marry you and raise the child together?
Do you want to be pregnant?
Can you afford raising a child on your own?
Did you and him get along well together?
Does he hope to see you again or was your time together more of a fling, a one/two night flirt?
If you don't want him to marry you but want his support, then tell him.
If your thinking of an abortion, don't tell him.
If your thinking of adoption, then tell him.
If you don't know what to do, then call him and discuss your life to this point, and the reason you called is that your pregnant. He may need sometime to think about it, give him two weeks maximum. Maybe he will pay your way to be with him.
Where does he live?
Good luck and best of wishes to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): YES!!! he's the father he has a right to know !!! you should consider settling down adn getting married and taking care of the child TOGETHER ... or an abortion... I don't recommend that tho... I personally dont' believe in it but do what you must. I think you should tell him tho and then think about the options
*~VG~*
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