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writes:I moved halfway across the country with my boyfriend, and now I think I need to leave him. Help!?I messed up. I got into his myspace page and looked through his inbox. I know it wasn't right, and I'm going to confess this to him. I did it because he brought me here under false pretenses and I was afraid he's been hiding more from me. He failed to mention to me that he had an STD and couldn't remember from which girl until after I had asked him about it (he said he was clean), we slept together, and then I moved halfway across the country with him. I wish he would have told me the whole truth so I could make an objective decision. Now I found out that, through his myspace messages, he would often send the same type of message to various girls just in hopes of getting some tail.. and this wasn't all that long ago. And there were quit a few of these messages within a short period of time from one another! He said the same thing to those girls that he says to me now.. says they are beautiful, gorgeous, incredible...My heart is broken and maybe it's my fault. I don't know what to do, but maybe I'm a bad person for getting into his info.
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Your not a bad person and dont let him make you think you are, he is the bad guy you deserve better i would get rid of him let him have his online girls. You deserve love and respect and you are not gonna get it from here move on huni.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): I'm so sorry for you, the same thing happened to my daughter, she found out her man was playing the field through my space, she stayed with her man, but got more and more hurt, then 2 years later she found out he had a toddler with his ex and his ex was having another baby by him ( he got his ex pregnant while he was with my daughter). Your not a bad person and its not your fault, if he loved and respected you he would never have done these things. Get away from him as soon as you can, it wont be easy,. I know what my daughter went through, it wasn't nice but she got through it. She's with a new partner now and is very happy. I wish you all the luck with whatever choice you make x
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reader, ashryanxx  +, writes (15 January 2009):
your not a bad person if u were so good to move away with him he shouldnt be hiding anything from you.
if he had nothing to hide he would have no problm with u looking at this. be strong you know what he is like now. my advice is to get away from this man. if you have family to go to then do and build your life again . best of luck x
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