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writes:Why do i do this? Hi all. I have been with my bf for 2 yr and we have a daughter together. He is a lovely wonderful bloke who i love very much. But 4 some reason i go on chat sites, yes i like the compliments, i like just chattin, think that is 2 do with feelin isolated, i have no friends near me since movin after my daughter was born plus bf works full time plus over time. I also have been ill 4 a few wks so no sex. But i have found myself havin cyber sex with other men. I feel really awful after. And to be honest if i ever did go 2 cheat on bf i could never go through with it coz i would not feel right but why am i addicted 2 these sites, why do i need this attention. I want my bf thats all
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (3 August 2009):
 You never thought you go through with cybersex....so why cant you fathom cheating on your boyfriend??? You already are!CYBERSEX IS CHEATING! DUH!Your are way too immature to be in any type of committed relationship. Be honest, grow up and start thinking about somebody other than yourself.If you cant figure out why you do this, then it is only a matter of time before you physically cheat on your bf and ask yourself the same question when you write back here after it happens..."why do I do it?". You cant find love in a relationship if you are looking outside of it.You are are walking timebomb for your relationship unless you end this behavior.
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reader, Legioness +, writes (3 August 2009):
 You missy, need to work on yourself, you seem to have somewhat low self confidence and esteem if i'm right? And there's nothing wrong with admitting this either, just to add, cos I know some people don't like hearing it! The best way to tackle this is quit the sites for a little while, take your child out to mother and child centres or activities, even to the park and get chatting to some other mums, get back out there on the making friends scene :) also talk to your fella about leaving some 'you time' aside so that you two are free to enjoy one another and appriciate eachothers company, throw in some 'sexy time' and hopefully, hey presto, look who's got her jazz back :) it's only a rough idea but what i'm getting at is maybe once you've found a little more fulfilment in your life with friends and spending time with your partner etc you'll be able to leave the naughty online chitter chatter behind and live your life how you feel you should be living it, as a mother, a partner and a friend. No in betweens :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): you realise your mistake.so ssssssstopppppppppp going there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): If you want your boyfriend,thats all,then you wouldnt do it. When your boyfriend finds out,you wont have your boyfriend thats all,you will be able to carry on without cheating. Why do you do it? Because you think you will always get away with it.
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