New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I get wet before having sex, is there something wrong with me?

Tagged as: Health<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (28 July 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

im in a sexual relationship and my fella always comments on how wet i am down below before we have sex. he always mentions it and has also mentioned that he has had to use lube with some of his exes and never with me so im starting to wonder if theres something wrong down there??? what do u think??

View related questions: his ex

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, Youngerthebetter United States +, writes (1 August 2009):

Wow! sweetheart cool.

I dated a lady once that regardless of how much foreplay we did she couldn't lube and had to get lube from her doctor.

I love it when a woman is wetter then the river flows cause in my opinion it tells me shes turned on and even though my old girlfriend had hormonal problem and was not lubing like she should she was still turned on but sometimes not everything is black and white when it comes to the female body.

Enjoy your sex life sweetheart your doing fine'-)

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i thank everyone for their answers to my questions except RAINORFIRE who is a patronising idiot and knows nothing about women if he thinks his response is appropriate to such a sensitive question. Obviously, writing a question like mine means i have some sort of insecurity about what im writing and his answer is completley insensitive and narrow minded. if your trying to be funny, your not. but to everyone else, thank you, you have put my mind at rest.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, DLover Canada +, writes (28 July 2009):

getting wet is perfectly normal, it's exactly how it's suppose to happen. I'd say some of his ex were different than most women.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntAre you the age you say you are cuse you should no this stuff by now.

Maybe your bf has been with some old cougars in the past or hes just exaggerating how naturally lubbed up you are at any rate your sex ed level seems to be a little lacking you should get some books on it if your going to be having sex cuse im sure more questions will be coming up

Oh BTW its called a Vagina, Australia is down there

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

Honeypie agony auntbeing wet = female arousal

It's a good thing!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

This is normal. There is absolutely nothing to worry about, you being wet before sex is normal, just showing how aroused you are. Woman vary on how wet they get before sex, some become really wet and others need help such as lubricants. Hope this helps .

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

This is normal. There is absolutely nothing to worry about, you being wet before sex is normal, just showing how aroused you are. Woman vary on how wet they get before sex, some become really wet and others need help such as lubricants. Hope this helps .

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2009):

Being wet is the normal response to getting turned on. It would hurt like hell if you didn't have some kind of natural lubrication system for sex.

All it means is that your boyfriend has got the hang of turning girls on, where as his ex's weren't that in to him.

Good Luck!! xx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I get wet before having sex, is there something wrong with me?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0624921999997241!