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writes:I always seem to get to attached to boys and scare them off and when I talk to guys i really like, i can get my words out and just end up looking stupid. How can I get over this and stop getting so obsessed!! xx Reply to this Question
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (18 April 2007):
 I know exactly where you're coming from!
The secret is to consider yourself as being something FOR THEM to get obsessed about. Play hard to get, don't seem to clingy. If there's one thing a guy hates, it's commitment I'm afraid.
Put yourself in a higher position and think more of yourself. Don't stick your nose in the air, but feel irrestible to them.
Don't wear your heart on your sleeve, let them come to you instead of the other way around. Men love a challenge and if you act like you they mean nothing to you and use the phrase "I don't go out on dates" It will make them want to crack this mystery girl!!
Always remember - men love a challenge.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): First of all you are completely normal, at your age so don’t worry try reading this book called “The rules” Available from waterstones,
It will teach you how to act with boy’s don’t take it too literally though
Always be nice and cool with Boy’s act casually as though you’ve got a life of your own, dress nicely don’t spend too much time on the phone with them,
Play hard too get but don’t look like that’s what you’re doing, simply say “I’ve got too go”
And do glance at your watch during a date or when chatting to them this is the easiest way too avoid “boy pain” and rejection if you learn how be mysterious now it should stand you in good stead for the future,
Good luck sweetie,
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): Well I have the perfect remedy!
It's simple but effective.
Don't set ur heart on guys cus I'm sad 2 say there's a bigger chance it won't work out than it will!
Hope this helps!x
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