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male
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30-35,
*ammy
writes:hey guysme and my gf are having a little problem and its a bit stupid..=="neway today we were talking on msn and then suddenly she started to sound really sad and depressed so i asked if she was and she said yes and then i asked wats wrong and she said its nothign and she refused to tell me... idno y but now im getting the feeling that she doesnt trust me or something:S this has happened before and it left me feeling like crap as i am feeling now, althogh this time is worse..another thing is that usually when we go offline we say bye and say that we love eachother which we really do but this time all she said was "nights" and then that was it..:Sidno wats wrong but its really getting to me and its gonna keep me up all night as it did last time... can anyone give me some advice on hwo to deal with this?:S
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reader, lammy +, writes (14 October 2009):
lammy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnah its a pretty close relationship, i saw her earlie today actually and we had a great time together too
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 October 2009):
Tell her not to manipulate you and not to act pissed off if she is not prepared to talk like an adult about it.
Girls (and men) can do this to make you feel awful and then you beg for forgiveness when you don't even know what you did.
If she says everything is fine then accept it must be fine.
Tell her you don't like having her bad moods taken out on you.
Now go to sleep.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): you should keep asking her whats upp.. do you live close or is it a long distance relationship? me and my boyfriend live in seperate countries and i got so depressed i couldnt see him at all. maby your not paying her enough attention or something.. if you do live close, do something nice and unexpected for her, it doesnt really matter what.. its the thought that counts. is there another girl your talking to? us girls can feel insecure about stuff like that really easy :P maby she thinks your going off her. x
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