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female
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anonymous
writes:I am 15 and I have had sex 3 times. My first time wasn't painful as the penis wasn't big. My second time was so painful (he was very big) he had to stop and my vagina and clitorus swelled up and i bled a bit. My third time was a tiny bit less painful, we finished. But the same thing happened, my vagina and clitorus swelled up and has been bleeding even more than the second time, he was also big. Is it because my body hasn't matured fully? Or is there something wrong?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (5 September 2007):
I agree that you are too young to be doing this now. But, remember most viginas can expand to the sixe of a child. When the time come you will be able to get used to sex with your husband with no pain at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): I think the real question is what are you trying to prove to yourself by having sex with three different guys at the age of 15? Your body isnt ready, that's why you're swelling up and bleeding.
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reader, JessIzFit +, writes (4 September 2007):
 No offense but it is illegal.
Wait a bit longer, your body will be ready, and you will enjoy it a lot more.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (4 September 2007):
 i would agree with all of the others and add the little tiny fact that ur underage and no offence hunni but its kinda illegal...
maybe u shuld wait...ur only gonna do more damage than good...
sorry
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (4 September 2007):
 Yes, absolutely your body is telling you it is not ready!! And having one night stands with 3 differant boys in quick succession is not healthy even when you are older. Take a step back from this self destructive behavior and give your body a break. Wait a few more years before getting sexually active again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Your body has not matured fully, I am sorry that you are having sex while you are still a child....I did not have my first menses until I was 15, and was flat as a board just about....you are way too young to be sexually active and your body is trying to tell you something.
Did you know that young girls before the age of 20 only need to have sex once and they can become more vulnerable to contracting the HVP virus that causes cervical cancer, simply because of their age, no other real risk factors have to be present....this is very serious, just because you had sex 3 times does not mean you can't stop doing that until you are older and in a loving relationship...you may feel your body gives you power over boys, but these boys are just using you as a sperm recepticle....have some pride in yourself, your body is your temple and your gift to give to someone who deserves it and will love you back.
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