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writes: hi im 19 and have only had sex about 4 times with the same partner, aftwards i get really sore for about a hour, is this normal or is there anyway to stop it? please help Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (23 January 2006):
 Hi there
chances are you are still nervous when making love so you are not properly "lubricated". If this is the case it can cause stinging and irritation when you ahve sex if you are dry. Ask your sexual partner to slow down and spend more time "turning you on". Make sure your partner isn't being too rough because that can casue bruising or chafing of the delicate tissues of the vagina, although these can actually take quite a pounding (as it were lol, think childbirth!) Learn to relax. But if this doesn't help then you acn buy lubricant from the chemist for a couple of £'s such as k-y jelly and use a little of that
Remember it will egt easier with time, and as I have said to people before when was the last time you were good at something the first few times you tried it. It is normal so please stop worrying about it.
Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2006): Hi there sweety. This may seem like a serious matter but it isnt. It is natural to feel like that after sex. The more and more frequently you have sex, the more it reduces. It may also seem warm and hard to pee (a bit like a water infection). Remember that it is natural and not to worry
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