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writes:Alright, now I know this question probably won't be answered as seriously as most of the other questions, seeing that I am really young. However, I found this girl at my school, I've liked her for a year, she's liked me for a year. It used to be just a smile and a short conversation last school year. Last weekend (not sure of the exact date; last weekend of September) she called me on my cell phone. We talked for about 2 hours on saturday night, and another 1 and a half sunday night. She now calls me every night at about 8 and we talk until we both go to bed. I can tell she likes me a lot since she always tells me her "tummy tickles" when I say and make certain gestures to her. I know I like her alot also, cause she is all I think about wheneever I am away from my friends and right after she hangs up with me cause she said shes going to bed.So now, I shall state the problem. This girl is a major flirts, she flirts with every guy she sees. I'm not saying a slut. This may be the reason we like eachother in the first place anyways. But... getting back on track, I will try to talk to her sometimes but then she will run off and mess around with some other guys. I kind of get mad at this. That's my problem, I can't change the fact that she's a flirt, so I've told myself (and her also when we argue, tehe) that I've just got to learn to trust her. I wanna know if this is right what I'm saying. Should I take all of the blame and try to trust her with every guys she talks to? Or am I too controlling or something? I just want to know what to do in these situations as I get really angry.Some help would be nice, I just wanted to know what you guys though I should do.
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (5 October 2008):
hiyah every girl has a bit of flirt in her but usally cuts back when shes with a guy although some just carry on as normal she might not feel her behaviour is hurting you at all shes got so used to being the way she is she doesnt know how to adjust to suit you.
Your jumping straight into and and your emotions are everywhere and you might be getting to deep to soon. you talk every night maybe you just need a break from each other for a bit? like cut it down to certain days and times when you meet up that way you will both be more apreciative when you meet.
Maybe you could try talking to her about how now your further into a reltionship you just need to know where you stand. you seem to really like her but dont panick she might feel just as in love with you but she cant stop being who she is, i say it a lot but talk to her this way you can sort out what you are and the way you are. explain you dont want to wreck what you have because your happy, im sorry this hasnt helpped much the first bit of advice summed it up! best of luck x :)
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