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writes: I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years now and the other year I was diagnosed with depression. Since then my personality is very different, I get jealous easily and I am always arguing with my boyfriend. I don't talk to him about stuff that is bothering me instead I think he should know what is up which just ends up in me shouting at him. I love him so much but he isnt going to take much more is he?
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reader, Drlove +, writes (8 July 2005):
I'm sorry but Robin are you for real? No offense but how old are you ? Just the "advice" you give doesn't often make sense or seem at all helpful. SOmetimes it seems like you are simply "advising" to be doin it. Yes there are other advice givers that are the same or worse but I have seen you in soo many places and the first few times I thought it was a joke but ....wow... I don't know.Any more luck with you and that Eric dude btw?
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reader, xxxmixed_mamixx +, writes (14 June 2005):
Im in depression also i lost my boyfriend to my high level of jealousy but i know where your coming from it cant be controlled thats what depression does to you it makes you insecure and feel your not good enough for your other. Just tell him how you feel without losing it tell him how you feel about yourself then slightly move into your problem with him having girls as friends tell him you dont feel comfortable. Maybe you would feel better if you knew them. Before you lose your head think about what you will be losing if this isnt solve soon.
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (14 June 2005):
 If you really love him, you need to show it. Love does not mean argueing and yelling and being depressed all of the time. Cuddle with him. Put your arms around him and really show how much you love him. How you are dealing with the depression is is torturing him. you need to do what you think is best for him. argueing with him is puting him through a lot, and you should thank him for puting up with you for so long. Yet, the relationship between you two is not that great. Besides the depression deal, you two dont talk about anything and everything. You cant trust him to know that he is not going to cheat or anything. that is the jealousy in you. It is normal for the boyfriend or girlfriend to get jealous once in a great while, but you get jealous way too easily it sounds like, and it is most likely ticking your boyfriend off. If I were you, i would tell him that you are very sorry for everything that you have put him through, and let him off easily. He needs a person that will show that they love him. Dont take any of this personal. i really am not trying to be mean in any way. just tryin' to help. good luck ~Robin~ aka. Advice gurl
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