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I get jealous over my guy talking to other girls! How can I stop comparing myself to them and getting all moody??

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Question - (6 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does anyone else get really touchy and moody on and off in their relationship? I feel bad because I get in a mood with my boyfriend for silly things- like I can't get over feeling a bit jealous when he talks about girls he's spoken to... he's the same towards me... but I've not been really like this before with people and I don't want to seem overpowering so I don't say anything. Do you think its something deeper rooted I need to work on? Please help as it really gets me down and I can run over and over what he said and think he's more attracted to other people, when it stares me in the face he isn't!

For example, he's good friends with a girl and they seem to get on really well and then it makes me beat myself up about my appearance, because I think she's better looking than me... any ideas how I can be a nicer girlfriend and stop being so silly?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007):

hey thanks guys... me again. I'm gonna try and make a big effort from now on to accept that its me he loves :) Thanks again xxx

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A female reader, xsuperbunnyx United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2007):

Hey honey,

It's natural to compare yourself to other ladies; we all do it! What you mustn't do is beat yourself up about - he's picked you to be his girlfriend, this other girl is just his friend. I know it's hard but it only proves that you care about him. =]

Hope this helps.

xx

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