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writes:a while ago, i got dumped by my bf. since then we stayed really good friends. we talked alot, messaged eachother till like 3 in the morning and so on. now recently, he hasnt been talkling to me as much, and i have noticed that he has been getting close with one of my good friends. i dont think anything is going on between them, but i just have my suspicions that they might like eachother. anyways, my problem is that i think i might be jealous of her. i thought i was over my ex, but maybe im not.. :(so could someone please help me out here. 1- i want to try and get over him fully, but a part of me still likes him. even though i know we will never be together again. 2- how can i make him talk to me like before? the conversations would flow but now, its just dead answers to my questions, and boring conversations.thanx:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for your help.but the thing is, i really really want to stay friends with him.he is a real ladies man.and ALL of my friends are friends with him, so it will be very hard to just erase him out of my life.and he is all round a good guy. he is caring, funny, and a good person to talk to.i just dont know what to do.my feeling are slowly going away.but i dont know what to do about the staying friends thing.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (7 January 2008):
 I know its hard but i think that you have just got to forget about him and move on with your life. the more contact you have with him the more stronger the feelings will get, and ultimately it will be harder to get over him. Look at it as a chapter in your life, water under the bridge so to speak. So avoid contact and over time your feelings for him will begin to subside, time is the healer of all pain.
All the best x
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