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*utterfly18
writes:its really a long story but im gonna make it shortso i have a crush on a guy 4 almost a year and half and we re both in college well i started to like him when i knew that he likes me but im just too shy to talk to him so... he tried so many times to talk to me and show me that he likes me.2 months ago he sat next to me in class(it wasnt by accident) so i felt so nervous and i was blushing and couldnt say a word and we both were so uncomfortable (eventhough i always dreamed of this moment but i dont know i just felt too nervous and i thought im gonna make a fool of myself if he talked to me)and to make it worse i just sat somewhere else when the lecture was over so he really was upset and he even told his friend to sit next to him, and i really feel so bad about it coz if i were him i think i would be really hurt and especially that he doesnt really talk to lot of girls ...so im sure it took him alot of courage to do it then i acted like that i never meant to hurt him but im just really shy and i felt so nervous and i just wanna make it up to him (like apologize or something) ,coz hes really very sweet guy and doesnt deserve that...and i really like him and it really makes cry when i think that i hurt him coz hes very nice guy and i shouldnt have done that and probably he thinks that i hate now ..so GUYS how can i show him that i care about him ?and how would u feel if a girl did that to u?(i need shy people opinions)pleaaaaaaase help me with that...appreciate any advice
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reader, Harpy43  +, writes (10 February 2011):
Okay, i am a very shy person. i am dating a guy that ive had a crush on since my freshmn year in highschool and i am now a senior. talk to him or try to get a friend to talk to him for you. let him know you are sorry and try to make it up to him. be his friend and try to start conversations when he sits next to you so it wont be entirely akward. if he sees that your sorry and your a great friend then he will come around, it might take a little longer than you expect, but it might work. if you have his number try calling him or texting him.
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