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writes:Hi, im a sixteen year old girl. I recently got a boyfriend, he and i love eachother very much. I tired giving him a blow job and i was in the car doing it for about fourty five minutes or and hour, and he didnt cum. We tried two more times and i was a bit more aggressive and he said it felt really good but he didnt cum. I think im doing it wrong or something, he said i did awesome but i think he's just saying that so my feelings arent hurt. Why didnt he cum? We dont do stuff like that anymore because we want to have a cleaner relationship and dont want it to be just physical. But why didnt he cum? Im really curious....
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reader, Pinkbees09 +, writes (11 October 2007):
 Well I've never done this type of stuff but I heard that guys just don't cum all the time. And its great that you and your boyfriend decided not to be just physical. And don't worry I don't think he was lying when he said he enjoyed it lol.
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reader, Asexy +, writes (11 October 2007):
 He's used to the instant feedback he gets from his hand; he immediately knows what will feel better when he's doing it himself. With *you* doing it, he needs to learn how to let you know what feels good.
You're not doing anything wrong (as long as he didn't say "ouch" I mean). Just having your mouth on his penis is a step in the right direction for him.
Have you been able to get him to come giving him a hand job? My guess is you'll have the same problem here. This is his issue, not yours.
Like everything else, this takes practice. Don't get nervous about it. He needs to direct you (tell you over to the left, etc.).
If you get to the point where you want to try again, talk to him about it first. Ask what would feel better. Communication in this part of your life is crucial; if you can't talk about it to your partner you shouldn't do it.
Good luck.
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