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*anther01
writes:Hi,I spoke to a guy at work about 3 months ago. During the conversation we both dropped it in that we were single. But nothing else.I then spoke to a friend who is good friends with him. I asked him what he's like etc. He told me that I've got nothing to worry about because I am his type. I then noticed him around work more than I did before. Our mutual friend asked me hasn't spoke to you yet? I said No?!I get really nervous and get away as soon as I can. I've had a bad time with my ex, which has put me off men.So I decided to email him. He replied back, asking me how I was. Because I won't see him for a week now, as we're on different shifts. I gave him my number on email. He hasn't contacted me. Not sure if i did the right thing now. (I emailed him yesterday).Thank you.
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reader, Panther01 +, writes (1 December 2009):
Panther01 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys thank you so much for your opinion.
I'm confused but will leave it.
He asked my friend about me a few times, basically said what's the score with me etc.
I noticed that he tried to speak to me a few times at work but I didn't stick around.
I still haven't heard anything so I feel a bit daft! oh well! lol
Thanks again. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): Hey, thank you guys for your opinion.
I feel a bit daft now! Haven't heard anything, so I'm going to leave it.
I got the impression quite a few times that he tried to speak to me at work but I felt too embarassed and didn't stick around.
He asked my friend about me a few times, basically asking what's the score with me etc.
Although I'm not going to pursue anything myself but still confused as to why I've not heard from him. It's difficult to talk at work as it's always so busy.
Anyway thanks again. :-)
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (1 December 2009):
It really wasn't that long ago. You know how guys can be...they don't want to come off too eager, so he may wait a bit. If he's the shy type, then he may be just too afraid to call you, or he could not be interested. I agree for now, just let it go. It's up to him for now to make the next move.
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reader, gayngel +, writes (1 December 2009):
I agree with oldersister, in my personal opinion and experience its best to not come on too strong if u see the person on a regular basis as you dont want to scare them off and make things awkward. I always find having a bit of flirty fun at work makes it fun and exciting. I always have a litle flirt with people by just saying little digs (nothing horrible but funny things) then they normally dig back. thats what i call flirty banter. just have a bit of fun and dont think about wanting to get to serious. dont try and push it further than it needs to go because in time things will unfold themselves n if it is meant to be it will. My advice now would be to sit back, relax and just look for little hints fom him. And always smile, happy people r more atractive than miserable ones. When peole smile they glow and send out a good vibe. Give it sometime for him to give u a call, he might be playing hard to get now n making you wait, dont let it eat u up.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (1 December 2009):
 you did the right thing. Someones got to get the ball rolling so good for you. It was only yesterday so don't concern yourself. He's probably plucking up the courage to ring you.
This could take a bit of time lol.
Good luck x
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