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writes:My boyfriend (23) and I (20) have been together for three and a half years. We've lived together for six months of that. Well, last night I found underwear that was not mine and confronted my boyfriend about it. He ultimately didn't have an answer, so I kicked him out for the night. He's still at his college buddy's apartment, or so I'm thinking at the moment.This isn't the first time he's done this, though. He cheated on me with four other women within the first year and a half of our relationship. Those times, he seemed pretty sorry about what he did, so I took him back. He didn't do anything for two years; or so I'm assuming. But I've had it with him and lying and cheating! I want to forgive him again, I want to keep trusting him, but I just can't find it in me to do that anymore.What should I do? Should I forgive him or forget him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): maybe they`re his...lolno i would confront him and to be honest ive been with a guy who cheated on me 3 times and i eventually dumped him and got on with my life. dump him hes not good enough for you
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Please stop forgiving him and feeling sorry for him. Your health, your life, your well-being, your emotional and mental state, are more important.
What if he gives you a disease?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): I can't believe you took him back after he cheated on you with FOUR other women!. Sweetie, you deserve a knight in shining armour, not this sorry state of a man. All the best and move on knowing you made the right decision to not be with someone who is not worthy of your time.
Much love izi
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Forget him! Don't let yourself be degraded this way! I would imagine that everytime he's cheating on you and thinking about whether or not he'll get caught, he's thinking "doesn't really matter.. she'll just take me back anyway"Do not let yourself be the girl who's boyfriend treats her like dirt but she always takes him back and just lets herself be treated this way. Go find yourself a man you respects you, makes you happy, and makes you feel special and confident about yourself. All this cheating can't be good for your self esteem. I really wish you the best.. ok but remember, the more you let him treat you badly, the worse you are treating yourself. and then you are just recieving bad treatment from all around.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Leave him! He'll never change! In my experience a leopard never changes his spots! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Forget! Its too much!
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