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writes:Okay, so it's eatser break and my boyfriend is at his Dad's for 2 weeks. We were speaking online most of the time, we usually do anyway when we're not together. But gradually he's been speaking less and less. I was fine with it and first since he's always busy (most watching tv or on his ps3, haha) but now when I say hi to him, he doesn't reply at all, and after a few hours he'll go offline. Infact that's happening now, haha. The thing is, he's been away alot and we usually spoke normally. I spoke on the phone to him a few days ago and he seemed completely fine. Do you think there is anything wrong with him at the moment? What do you think I should do? I would talk to him about it, but if it IS something as simple as him being busy then I don't want to make it seem like I'm making a big deal, or want to annoy him. Please help, thanks in advanced :) Reply to this Question
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 I think it's okay if he doesn't talk to you everyday, but if it's been days, and he is pulling this, you need to ask him about it.
Maybe something could be wrong with his computer? It causes him to sign off and on when he's not even at his computer?
Just call him and talk to him about this. Or if he is long distance, try to im him about this. If he doesn't respond, give him an ultimatum, like if you don't say something and let me know that everything is okay, so I can leave you alone to whatever you were doing, we are over.
He should at least email you during the times where he is not busy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): There are plenty of ways to ask him without annoying him or making it seem like a big deal. Like saying almost what you just did say"I understand that you're busy and i'm fine with that so i don't want to make a big deal out of nothing, but i also don't want to make nothing out of something. So i just need your honesty.. Is there somethign wrong where you can't talk to me, or is it just that you're busy?" You know, in your own words but i think something like that. You do need to ask him though, because you really can't spend your whole relationship wondering what's going on in your head. There is not much to a relationship without communication.
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reader, playbunni +, writes (19 April 2009):
babe hes not worth it. you need a boy who will treat you will the respect you deserve!!
hope this helped. good luck...x
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Send him a message saying that when he isn't busy you need to talk to him, if he doesn't reply for ages then when you finally do speak to him dump him! Life is too short to spend wondering what your other half is doing! X
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