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writes: People tell me that my ex bf has a history of fooling around with other girls while you're with him. He broke up with me and was with a different girl in the same day. I also heard from a friend that he cheated on his current gf, kissing a girl i know called Liz (who has a bf). I believed this story because i had more reason to doubt his loyalty than hers, and it was her who told people, not him. My ex called me the other night and we had a really good chat and cleared the air about our break up, which was great, but he told me he was still crazy about me and i think he's going to ask me out again soon. In the same conversation he told me that Liz came on to him. i didn't say anything at the time, but it pissed me off because i already knew that it was him who came onto her. This made up my mind that this guy wasn't worth it, as he's obviously a slut. But today i joined in a conversation some of my friends were having about Liz. they were slagging her off, saying that she kissed some guy called Keith (not my ex) even though she's still with her bf. I mentioned the kiss between Liz and my ex, and that they were each saying that the other person came onto them, and one of my friends who is also good friends with Liz said that she was not trustworthy and i should take my ex bf's word for it. I had previously heard from a close friend of mine and Liz's that Liz was attracted to this Kieth guy and was considering leaving her bf for him. I also have proof that Liz had been flirting with my ex since the kiss, texting him and visiting him at work etc.Now that i know that my ex was telling the truth, i'm having second thoughts about him, thinking that perhaps he is worth another shot. It was the cheating that was the only thing stopping me from reconsidering a relationship with him. There was also the first incident, when he broke up with me and had a different gf by the end of the day. But technically, that's not cheating, is it? Can i trust him enough to be with him again? I still love him more than anything, but is that enough to make the relationship work?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006): love should be the thing keeping it going, i think you should chat to him about you relationship tell him that u've heard stories about him cheating on his g/fs and say you don't wana be that person he cheats on if he love's you he should respect you for saying this
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