A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:he went on vacation for 40 days he called me every morning and every night and throught the day but i was lookin at his email account out of curiousity i looked in his trash and saw that he was messaging his ex he said she was hot and that he liked her they asked each other what if he asked her that if he dumped me would she go out with him again.. i asked him about this and he talked to me about this and i know he loves me because he wouldnt just dump me so what should i think? were still goin out and in love but i just keep getting these bad thoughts about him and keep wondering if hes cheating or somthin when im not there what should i do?
View related questions:
his ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou know what forget it thats crappy advice sure im young but your not me so how do you know theres not a small chance i might just be with him the rest of my life? i want reassurance not my mom
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): What "anonymous" has told you is excellent advice and I hope you pay attention to it!You really are a bit young for all this heavy seriousness and involvement.I hope you realize you had no business looking at his email(or cell phone messages, for that matter)? Curiosity is no excuse to pry. He would not be unreasonable to question whether HE can trust YOU, you know.Don't do that again.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): You are a bit too young to be quite so serious with him and obviously he is too. You are both still exploring life and trying things out. He is trying out a serious relationship with you, it is like practising, whilst trying out flirting with her. Don't expect grown up behaviour from someone so young. If it were me I would lighten up the relationship, worry less, maybe give it a break, make it less heavy for sure. Don't take it personally whatever you do, look after your own life and concentrate on having fun and working hard.
...............................
|
