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30-35,
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writes: my ex gf now of 7 months.....i just cant get over her......i still miss her so much.....i love her also.....i have tried to ask someone out at school but i just can't i always think of her............and i feel like im betraying her..........any ideas of how i can get over her.....we also talk sometimes on I'M...........thanks for ur time
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reader, Ninna +, writes (5 September 2007):
I know it is tough and it feels horrible BUT you need to move on. Here's a few things that may help...- Think of yourself and be selfish- Do things that will make you feel good like a self development course. Learn a new skill, find a new hobby.- Read books that interest you or do something different- Do something like an adrenalin/adventure stuff. Sky diving, Bungee jumping anything to make you feel courageous.- Go out with friends - Meet new people, flirt and flirt and flirtBottom line is you need to feel good about yourself again! You need to feel alive. There's a big world out there and if she can't be with you face it. Move on and be happy. You will meet someone new I can guarantee that!
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reader, kenny +, writes (5 September 2007):
If you are still carrying this much feeling for her is there not a chance the pair of you could get back together. You say she talks to you sometimes on IM so why don't you ask to meet her and see what she says.If she does not want to then all i can say is you are young and you will get over her, time is a great healer. But its worth a shot just to find out either way, at least you will know where you stand and can move on if needs be.Good luck
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