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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. Two years ago we went through a bad time and we broke up for a couple of months. I didn't know but during that time he met someone else. We got back together but he didn't call it off with the other girl for a month and I didn't find out until a year ago, and even then, through another source.He begged me to stay and said it had been the biggest mistake of his life and that it meant nothing. I did forgive him and for the past year we have had some great times. However just after Christmas I started bringing it up again and causing rows until eventually I finished with him in March this year. I really regretted it after a couple of months and tried to go back to him but he has told me he still loves me but I put him through hell and he is now with someone else.It is tearing me apart the thought of him being with another woman. W
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (30 July 2005):
 Oh yeah that would tear an elephant apart the thought of your ex being with someone else. I know how that feels. But...mmm how did you feel when he hid the fact that he had someone else...bet you felt like peaches and cream right? Sugar...if I was a guy and my girlfriend who I love a lot just broke up with me...it would have taken more than a couple of months for me to even think about getting another one....he has one already and is not giving you the time of day. It is hurting him what you did? Oh please if he did not mess up in the first place neither of you would be in this situation. Yeah he still loves your probably ...but think about it...even though you put him through supposed hell...it was not that bad for him to find another girlfriend in a jiffy. Darling...you are beautiful I am sure...forget casanova and count on someone who really loves you....yourself.Take care...ana
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