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writes: Hello everyone.I'm a little worried about the way that I've been feeling.I've just recently come to terms with the fact that I am gay. I'm 21 almost 22, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend, and it was very special, and I want to be with him for always, but there are times where I wonder what sex with a women is like, although I know that I love him, and want to be with him.I don't even think about this when I'm with him. he is away at the moment and sometimes in my mind I wonder what it would have been like. I don't want to say anything to my partner coz I dont want to hurt him, I won't go and act on my thought, but is there anything I can do to make the feeling go away?My boyfriend has slept with his ex-girlfriend, and has told me that he prefers making love to me, but now I find myself wondering what it's like, but I love him, and that makes me feel safe, but the thought plays with me in my mind. How can I stop thinking about it, I don't find myself sexually attracted to women, but I wonder, what should I do?
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reader, d4u04  +, writes (14 March 2006):
 I wouldn't advise this to everyone but why not float the idea of a threesome to your lover. Most men find it a turn-on anyway then you will be able to get the question out of your head. If this is not an option however then i agree with the below comment, ask him what it's like. I'm sure he'll be receptive x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2006): if you are curious about what sex with a woman is like why dont you ask your partner to discribe it to you. that way you are not acting on ur feelings by having sex with a woman but in a way you are getting to find out what it's is like, and be honest with your parthner all at once. im sure he wont be hurt if u just explain that as its something you have never experienced before you are curious and would like him to dicribe what it is like.good luck
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