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writes:dear cupids,i have a hobby of filming if possibly every thing that happens in my life so i would analogize it and to keep it in memory.my boyfriend does not love to do every thing under the spot lights yet today i filmed me and my boyfriends sexual intercourse without his knowledge, when i did it i was thinking that i need to see how do look while in the act, we looked funny by the way, but the question is should i tell him? should i show it to him? is this any sign of some psychological problems i have? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both so much for your answers, you have no idea how much reliefed i am that i asked you before doing anything that may twist our relation around
Thank you so much eddie and iamheretohelpyou
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reader, eddie85  +, writes (7 April 2013):
 I certainly would not show it to him. It would breach his trust in you.
How would you like it, for instance, if he had videos of you showering or using the bathroom? I imagine you wouldn't like it very much and you'd feel violated too.
Videos have a way of getting out on the Internet. For instance if you computer broke down and you took it to get repaired, or if it got hacked -- anything could happen... next thing you know you'll be on a pornography site -- and once it is there you can never completely remove it.
Now that you have done it, I would recommend not doing it again -- at least not without your boyfriend's consent. The ramifications of what you are doing could really haunt you for years to come.
Eddie
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