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*titch
writes:Background infoim 16 and still a virgin ive been with my bf for quite a while and we both felt that it was right. but when it came to it. it wouldnt fit we used lube aswell but still no change, i tried to relax as best as i could but it didnt work. i am extreeemley embarrised about this and havent confronted my bf about it yet. What should i do? about everything, how should i confront him? what should i say? and if we do try again what can i do to make it fit before and while we are trying. it hurt alot just getting nowhere and so im sure its going to hurt wen it does happen, what can i do to ease the pain?thankyou so much xx
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reader, Stitch +, writes (3 July 2009):
Stitch is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou guys, really helpfull
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reader, wrexham s agony aunt +, writes (2 July 2009):
well first off you need to make acsess to your vigina easyer 1 way to do this is by making your vigina wider by inserting your index finger into it then try with your index and middle fingers together but only use the 2 finger methord if the sigle finger method dosent open your vigina wide enough - your first time will hurt because you vigina is not used to it so your fist couple of times will hurt hope this helps
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reader, daletom  +, writes (2 July 2009):
The traditional advice is that you need to have an orgasm just before attempting insertion. Then, you get on top and guide him until you find the location, angle, etc that works best for you. There is no way he can tell how it feels for you - you need to adjust things until everything is positioned for your vagina to envelope his erection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): Firstly, make sure you're absolutely ready to have sex!
You could try foreplay/oral before sex just to get the juices flowing (so to speak). I have the same trouble when I have sex with my boyfriend if we go straight into it, so it's nothing to do with the fact its your first time and you're certainly not doing anything wrong. Don't try and force it in, because this will just cause pain for your boyfriend (and maybe you!) and will be a massive turn-off for both of you. Be gentle, and be safe! x
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