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writes:I fell in love with my sisters partner of 7 years. I stopped spending time with him, but couldn't get him off my mind. One night I had a break down and he was really there for me.Ive had a tough past and hes always helped me through my problems. Anyway we got talking and he ended up telling me he had feelings for me. Things led to other things and you get the rest. she fell pregnant with his baby a month into our affair and i couldn't stand the thought of him loosing her and his baby so i ended it, but he told her what happened. now iv'e lost them both and my nephew. I have a partner of my own that i havnt told. I'm the worst person in the world in my head. I just want to know how to have peace in my mind. How to get my sister back, to forgive myself for doing that to her. HELP!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): You will never get your sister back. Why will she want to be with her own flesh and blood who deliberately betrayed her.You need to find out why u did what u did.leave your sister alone. I think she has been through enough already.Your partner will also get to know about your affair so better u tell him than him hearing the gossip.This is one of life's very hard lessons and unfortunately this is where consequences as a bitch.I am sorry u got caught. But what else did u expect from her? To turn the other cheek?Too bad that her man got away scott free but at least he had the decency to tell her. Showed he loved her after all.This is very sad but you need to let her be.LoveGirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): I'm sorry to say this but you did a horrible thing, going behind your sister's and your own partner's back like that. But I'm sure you feel horrible about that already so I shall not rub on it! All you can do now is ask for her forgiveness, and give her time and space to get over it. Come clean with your partner, he deserves to know as well. One question I have though, why didn't you turn to your partner when you were down instead? This might also reflect on your relationship with your partner. Is he not there for you when you need him? You should be going to him instead! :) You can always learn from your mistakes :) Don't take it too hard on yourself, just make sure to make it up to her and never do it again! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): Well, this is rather serious business. Bough unfortunenrly nothing you can do can make this any better. You made an incredibly silly decision and now you will have to life the concequences for the rest of your life. Don't count on getting these people back into your life.
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