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writes:I fell for this girl and she is my best, most-trusted friend and i want to tell her but don't want to ruin the friendship. it gets more complicated because we are going to be joining the army together and she'll be in the same unit as me. my other friends think she feels the same but i could use some more experienced advisers.what should i do?
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reader, hip_hoppin_bitch +, writes (17 April 2009):
Go 4 it. I think that when ur somebody's closest friend and their ur closest friend, and u develop feelings 4 them, then this could be a very good relationship, but then she may not feel like she likes u dat way, and den she might feel betrayed, so i do agree that this is tricky, but if she likes u to, then ask her on a date, and c where it goes from there. Besides like SophiaB said, u only live one life, so live it and love it to life's fullest. Good Luck.
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reader, SophiaB +, writes (17 April 2009):
 I felt exactly the same way as you towards one of my best friends. You gotta tell her! Becuase even if she doesn't feel the same way, at least you have told her and you can move on. But if you tell her and she feels the same way then great! Just go for it! You only live once.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Dude,This is tricky,Look my advice is to tell her that you find her attractive and that you have feelings for her. You need to be prepared for her to possibly say no. If she does can you be cool with that. If not well then honestly its a question of whether you say nothing and beat yourself up about it or take a chance and live with the consequences, no easy answer here I am afraid.I would go for it, at the very worst you know you tried and you are being honest to yourself, some might say that you are ruining a friendship but if you are crushing in her and never tell her then you aren't being honest.Go for it
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