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writes: I fell in love with a gay friend unexpectedly maybe because he would always make me special everytime we're together. He said he like me and give me looks that would make me really conscious when his around. Sometimes he would sit beside me and look at me while working.I was a hypocrite not to admit it at first coz i know his situation. But after months passed everything is so unbearable so I decided that I have to move on and leave my job. Now, I'm not sure if I am making the right decision. Because the question "did he loved me?" still bothering my mind. Is moving on really the answer to this situation? How can I move on when I don't know how to wake up each day knowing that I'm not gonna see him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2006): It sounds as though you are not actually sure if he is gay. Perhaps you should find out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyah, I really hope I misinterpreted everything.. Maybe because he moves, thinks and dress like a guy that's why I still kept on believing and would not admit to myself that he is really a gay.but I guess as long as I have feelings for him I'm not at peace with myself.. Will it be okay if I ask him about what he feels about me or I tell him how I feel? I saw him a few days back, and he ask me not to resign but when he saw me pass my letter he did not even say a word to stop me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006): I'm sorry this happened to you. There probably isn't anything there, I know it's tough but you need to let it go. He's gay. A lot of gay guys can be really sweet and make you feel that way and it's nice because it's less threatening. But in the end he's gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): if you have a chemistry with him contact him - do you have his email address
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reader, Just An Opinion +, writes (6 August 2006):
In my opinion, loving a friend who makes you feel special is totally normal. On the other hand, having romantic expectations with regard to an admittedly gay man is not healthy for you. It is very possible that your friend loved you for all of the good qualities that you must have, but that doesn't ,necessarily, mean that he has sexual desire for you. Why put yourself into this position? I think you were brave and smart to remove yourself from the situation. Find a man who can love you emotionally and physically. Good Luck!!
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