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writes: I wanna share my pain with u and I need a good adviceI dumped my love 2 weeks ago He cheated on me and he was playing around , I was living a lie Our relationship lasted for one year I loved him so much but I couldn't tolerate his lies When I dumped I was feeling better than now ! I was angry! I felt that I hate him and I don't want to see him again I blocked him ! He can't reach me He tried to say sorry and regret what he did but I didn't accept that Yesterday one of his closest friends came to my place ! We had few drinks and I was completely fine with that He told me you look normal! Not like someone who is going through a breakup I told him I'm still in pain but I feel good that I'm not with this jerk , we were chatting and my ex called his friend ! He asked about me and if u had chance to see her to talk to her ! I felt that I want to talk to him But I told his friend to say that he hasn't seen me since a while. After he called I felt that I miss him so much , I dreamt of him last night that he came back and apologized , he was kissing me in my room I got up this morning so bad ! I went to look at his pictures ! I started to remember every nice thing we had I listened to our favorite songs and smelled his fragrance Now I feel worse that before and I don't want him in my life but I can't stop thinking of him When he asked about me over the phone I felt that he wants me ! Although this question means nothing I cried a lot today and I'm waiting him to come although I don't want him What should I do How to stop myself from thinking of him ? I feel that I can't help it
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reader, empty-1  +, writes (6 June 2015):
Time.
Only time can heal this wound.
You may want to consider letting him back in. Do not do this. Be strong. You have made a painful, but correct decision.
The pain will heal over time. This is like when you hurt your foot in tight shoes. Even walking can hurt, but with time, the injury will heal. After time, you can run again without pain.
While you still hurt, it can be useful to think of other things at all times, so not to be thinking of him. Work, hobby, family, friends. Stay busy, and think of right now.
It might not be nice, and it might not be fair, but it might help hurt less if you spend less time with friends that are his.
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