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anonymous
writes:I recently found out that my ex-boyfriend is bi. I'm not saying this is a bad thing at all. I couldn't care less what sexual preference people have. I have three lesbian friends and it doesn't bother me. It's just that when I met my ex, he wasn't bisexual. When I met my lesbian friends, they'd already come out and everything. It's just such a shock to me. It just feels weird. He only just realized that he was bi a few months ago, and he came out last week. (We broke up in January, and he realized this apparently in the beginning of February.)I'm not prejudiced at all against gay people, it's just a weird feeling that someone I was dating turned out to be bisexual.
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reader, LouLee  +, writes (4 August 2008):
 i understand how you feel, my aunt married someone who turned out to be gay. Imagine how she felt.
Well alot of things, ashamed, confused, furious...but somehow i think she's overcome it.
:) xxx
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (4 August 2008):
 i didnt know my best friend was gay till he told me about 5 months after knowing each other and boy was i shocked i fancied the hell out of him lol..but i know what you mean its a weird feeling kind of like you cant believe you didnt know..dont worry give it time to settle in, and no you ddnt have anything to do with his sexual experience.. good luck aphex xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): I think you feel worried about it because you went out and you feel like you turned him bi.
It's nothing to worry about, he still likes women so you haven't put him off of them he just likes men too.
It must have been some guy he met that he felt strongly for to feel this way.xx :)
Don't worry be happy ? lol
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