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*ila1965
writes:I have been dating D for about one yr and 4 months to date. the first 5 months everything was ok. although he had lost his job within two months of our dating. I had to foot all our dating bills after that . within the first 5 months he disrespected me at a party witha young girl with whom he kept flirting with and endd up dancing with . She was doing dirty dance on him. I know now I should have walked away then as he did this in front of al my friends. They even helped him becaz he did not have a job. so when he was hanging with us. he never had to pay anything. I noticed that he was getting colder and colder towrds me. He lives about 2 hrs away on the train. atfirst he used to make evry effort to see me now he doesnt really care. Wit evrything going on the straw that broke the camels back was he had found a temporaray job. would u believe this guy hasnt made an effort to spend anything on me. one time he paid 10.00 for a meal we had and after that he kept saying he had to save his money for his papers( green card) whats worst i notice now he doenst eve want to hold me or kiss me ifI dont asked him to. one time when i tried to hold his hands he pulled it away not gently but rteal quickly i was hoorified. I kept gving him space over and over again and he has change a bit towrads me. I kept asking him over and over agin if he wanted me to move on and he said no. I made up a fake profile on facebook and learnt that his feelings was for someone else in fact it was as if I never existed in his life. I feel so hurt becaz the money I spent on him was for school, im not working and dpend on family/ I also borrow from scholl, He never told me one day he appreciated wat i did. I tried breaking off from him in a loving way and every which way u can think of but he refused to let me go. He said he was going to try and come see me on saturday and never showed up nor gave any explanation. Havent seen him for 3 months i couldnt take it anymore and told him to F off. Im a quiet person and this guy has changed everything in me. Im so angry now. I havent gotten a soory or anything from him. This is what i wanted why am I so hurt. ?
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reader, lila1965 +, writes (27 August 2010):
lila1965 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Bernard but I always hear from him, we just havent seen each other for three months. But Im trying to move on. For the first time in my whole life I have ever met someone like this. cannot believe there is such evil ppl in this world. Im huting so much , school has began and Im hoping this help me focus on other things than him. thx for being there Bernard I appreciate it.
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