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writes: Hi, I'm 15 and I am very self-confident about myself.I like this boy and he likes me but I hate him looking at me. I can't get close to a boy. I think I'm scared of what they might really see or think of me. It hurts so much, as this affects me wanting to snog him etc...I've never snogged anyone but I want to. I think it's because 'omg, I might get it wrong' or something like that.I don't want to feel this way any more. I feel ugly even though the boy I like tells me in every way that I'm not. I think to myself he's lying (and everyone's lying). It's little things that I hate about myself and I think that everyone else must think that too...Please try and help xx Reply to this Question
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reader, lucy +, writes (27 June 2005):
Do you think that this could be to do with how people have treated you in the past? (for example even it was one unkind comment said to you) because even one unkind comment about someones appearence can totaly lower or even totaly get rid of your confidence! If this is the case then i suggest to not even think about these comments. Concentrate on the positive things people say about you and you could even write them down! I understand so much how you feel and i understand how much you feel but acutally take int hese positive comments poeple give you and please don't think that they are lying. Take the chance with this guy cos he sounds like he realy does like you. Instead of concentrating on the things you hate about yourself concentrate on things you like. I wish you the best of luck sweety and i really hope this helps. xxx
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reader, carolyn +, writes (25 June 2005):
It seems you don't have a lot of trust in anybody at the moment. My advice is to take it easy...go out with this boy and have fun. If he likes you for who you are then he'll realise how you're feeling and help you to overcome the lack of self confidence...what reasons does he have to lie to you?
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