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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi There,While love making, I feel more eroused when he touches my pussy, fingers it. But most of the time he just does the intercourse and finishes off. This does not satisfy me at all. Now the problem is, I feel shy telling him what I like. And may be he does nt like to finger me.... Tell me what to do..... plz................
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): Next time you're in an intimate situation and he's fingering you, when he is about to pull his hand away and get on the job, just hold his hand against your pussy and tell him not to stop that, you're enjoying it! Nothing to feel shy or embarrassed about in that. As Gina says, he'll be glad he's doing something for you that you like. We guys get our kicks from giving as well as receiving, you know!
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reader, JSBach +, writes (28 July 2009):
I know it's difficult when you're shy. Maybe a glass of wine before bedtime can help you be a bit more open. Most men really do want to please their wives in bed - it's a big boost to our egos - so I'm sure he'll be glad to hear any suggestions you have, and if he can see that you are really enjoying it more, he'll be very happy. Do yourself and your husband a favour: tell him what you want.
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