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writes: Ive asked questions up here a few times and have gotten good advice. some of which i wish i would of listened to before now. this guy who i thought was a very good friend ive known for a year and told him i was inlove with him in nov.2010 and he disapeared and came back jan 28 2011 to tell me he want to be with me now that he couldnt before because he was confused cause his ex was pregnant and didnt know if it was his, we'd were together since then had alot of issues due to age i believe he is 22 im 33. he is sweet but switchs from one person to the next weekly. he told me he loved me in feb.2011 i was happy we both got our names tatted on each other and we were close. I had a miscarriage in march with his child and may be pregnant again and he said he wanted that to happen. me, not so sure cause i was scared that he would change again. I believe he is bipolar but sometimes i feel he uses that as an excuse when he changes. we let go for three weeks back in april cause he said he needed time to get his life together and when he popped back may 3rd hed apologized for hurting me and said he really wants something real with me and that he is ready to be there for me and my kids etc..and to just give him a chance to see he is serious. i did and we were great. then mothers fay morning like 1 30am he get quiet, he says he doesnt know whats wrong and he leaving! i cried, confused and he said he loving me enough to let me go!! I asked whats wrong? why? he just ignored me. I said how u make a kid with me come back in my life several times just to leave like this? he said aint like he planned it!! i couldnt believe it i just slapped him told him get out. he said dnt worry, im leaving!! i just felt so betrayed and hurt i couldnt believe this he textd me when he left but i deleted it becuz i was afraid what hed wrote was to hurt me. i wrote him a letter explaining how bad he hurt me and how i feel and that i hate him for what he did cause i never thought he would do that to me. ive done everything for him, from money to helping him when no one else would and he just leave!! my question is should i just let go?? because how could he care? but i dnt even know where to start now to get my mind,life and self esteem back i feel so stupid so ashamed and I feel abandoned can anyone shed any light?? please
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2011): You are older and have more life experience. You need to stay true to yourself and go with your instinct. Yes... You need to just let go and don't look back.
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