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writes:Me and my ex have been broken up for about 7 months now, but are still good friends. He invited me over his house a week ago we had a little drink, and he admitted he was close to kissing me, I don't know if he's still with his current girlfriend so I left not wanting him to get tempted even though I do want to be with him. I got home and he said The old feelings were coming back and sorry if he made me feel uncomfortable, I ended up telling him I was close to kissing him too. He then asked me the next day to come back over, though the plans fell through, he doesn't talk to me for two days. Then he tells me he's going to the movies with her. I don't talk to him for two days, feeling a little hurt, then he calls, wanting me to come back over. He actually mentioned her name about 3 times, so I think they still are together, but he at one point during the night grabbed me. Nothing ended up happening more than that, I was too started at the time to say or do anything. I'm really confused and I feel really out of place to ask if he's still with his girlfriend (Which happens to be his previous ex). I know this guy would never cheat, but everything just seems like a 50/50 chance. CONFUSED! Advice please.
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reader, Kawika +, writes (12 February 2008):
 Okay, he wants to be physical with you; he doesn't call you unless it is out of his convenience; he mentions her name to you; and he is still going out with that other girl. For me, the extent of any physical interaction between a man and a woman in a healthy relationship should warrant some form of intimacy; and intimacy would not survive without the other calling to say "Hi, how are you doing?". Intimacy includes the sharing of many things, but not another woman's name; and intimacy does not go out with another woman while leaving you at home. I hope I'm wrong, but that just doesn't seem right. In any case, If he is putting his hands on you, than you have every right to know where he stands with you. It is NOT out of place for you to ask him about his significant other if he is grabbing you.
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