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writes:Okay I am at my last wits! My ex who I had a child with does not spend a dime of my child support payment on him! His clothes are too small (except for the ones I buy him during my visitation, which she sends back to me rather than keeps), his shoes are a size too small if he is wearing any when I pick him up, He is never fed when I get him (he also is small for his age and when I get him looks malnurished!). I've tried to go for custody, but the judges are always on her side, I've tried suspending child support (it's not going to him any way, plus not a dime of her earnings go to him ($3000/mn)) Social services won't do a damn thing, what do I do? My son deserves a H*** of a lot better and I know I could do that for him! He's 3 years old and can't fend for himself against this woman, what can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): Really, social services won't do a damn thing!? Who is his Doctor. If he is small and malnourished his doctor should notice this! If she isn't taking him to the doctor you take him and get a copy of the report. You need to document this stuff. Keep a journal on his appearance and behavior when he is with you. Take pictures. Keep receipts from the things you buy for him. Document when she returns them. Does he go to school or have any babysitters? Talk to them. If they agree with you, record what they say. How about your family (or hers) do they notice these things. Build a case and then go back to social services or a judge.
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