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*usticc86
writes:I'm in a relationship with the woman of my dreams and I feel like its going to end any day now. We have been seeing each other for about 8 months now and have been living together for 6 months. I think/thought that she would be the one!, but now all it seems she does is find things to complain about. She tells me she loves me and wants to be with me, but I haven't kissed her or held her hand in the past week. When we go to sleep now its not I'm going to bed come with me its just I'm going to bed. She has now taken a job within the last week where she will have to move an hour away and says she wants me to go with her but I'm not sure if I do go if anything will change between us as in get better. Also this morning I get online at the house to check my e-mail and hers is still up with a e-mail she sent to one of her ex's saying she would love to get together and have a bottle of wine or two. What is that!? So I guess the question is... Is the relationship over? Our is there a way I can make this work?
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (22 January 2007):
 Neither of you seem very happy in your relationship, she's emailing her ex and you are feeling unloved.
Doesn't she care that you didn't even hold her hand for a week?
What is it that she complains about? Maybe if you see a pattern, you will find out what is making her unhappy.
Maybe it's time that the two of you sat down and had a chat in a calm and non-accusing manner about your relationship; where it's going and how you can make things better for each other.
For now, I wouldn't mention the email you saw though.
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