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writes: i feel numb with my boyfriend but i have felt like this befor and it got better but i feel guilty for feelin this way because i know how much i love him and he loves me but sometimes i feel suffercatede by him , like today he was fingering my then i felt a pain and just got angry at him and stormed out but i have no womanly monthly promblems ,also i feel like im loseing my friends and my identy i feel like im not me anymore just one of the many cuples just tell me what to do !!
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reader, Jayjay24  +, writes (22 August 2012):
 Same happened for me. You are just losing your self confidence. Like, when he was fingering you, did you let him? Sometimes us girls need 2 just have a couples of days 2 ourselves. Dont over stress things, tell your boyfriend about your problems as well. He may be the main cause of your stress. Not saying you have to end the whole relationship. Just talk to him. Express your feelings. If he really loves you, he will understand. Hope i helped :)
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reader, anonymous12345150  +, writes (22 August 2012):
you need to maintain your own goals/hobbies/interests/social group and life separate to your boyfriend.when a couple become very close it is like they turn into one person,this is a very negative thing and can lead to feeling like you have no identity or individuality.become yourself and see how you feel in a few months and if nothing has changed i would call your relationship a day.life is to short.hope this helped
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