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writes: i've been w/my man for 8 yrs i'm 26 he's 10 yrs older i feel i'm losing his intrest is it his age?what can i do to make him feel10 yrs younger.when we got together i was the one who shyed away now i want him all the time!!!any suggestions???
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2006): My husband and I are going through the same, very irritating, slump. He is 8 years older than I am, we have a 14 mo old. He claims he is tired all the time or that men cant get it up on a seconds notice. I hate it too, but its a relief to know I'm not the only one. Any guys have a take on this problem??
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have tried new things like recomended and i'm glad to say it is working!i feel a little odd but it's nice to feel wanted and needed again!i think i kinda scare him w/the change,but he seems to like it!thanks for the advice all!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all so very much! just to know i'm not the only one who feels these things makes me feel a little lesss crazy for the moment. i'll try the waiting it out i love him too much to not and anyway when we do get down it is always like magic'you know?! i appreciate the help'thanks!!!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (13 May 2006):
 Good GOD!!!!!
The man is 36 not 86!
Tell him you are unhappy about the quality of your sex life and then show a little imagination and get stuck in. Once you lead the way he is bound to follow. Passionate lustful sex though doesn't last for ever!! It could be a natural pause in your relationship. Take a breath and then help him to get stuck in again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2006): aarh! i feel the same way right now with my husband. i want him or to better say it, need him so badly, and he doesnt want to do anything! im so frustrated in every way right now! im 21 and he's 26 year old and he says that he feels old and that old people dont do young people things. like what is that all about! we've been thru alot together, we've been together since our teens, or my early teens and we've had a couple of kids already. im thinking that thats what makes him feel so tired or old (weird!) i wish there was a solution to this problem also. i've tried everything. i've tried doings sex acts that are every mans fantasy! i've tried not doing the same things in bed every luck time for me, that we do have sex and i do something new or diferent, so that it wont get boring. i've tried wearing sexy lingerie, massaging him in parts of his body (like his neck, ear, back and chest) to maybe create some stimulation and get some fantasy going thru his head to make him want me, and i've even tried cooking him a good meal to be romantic and all, but nothing works! i've tried afrodisiacs ( i dont know how to spell that)like perfume, choclate and sea food. im in very good shape for a woman who's had kids, and i dont think thats he's lost physical attratction towards me. i really dont think that its the fact that they're older than us because they're still young. i think it matters when they're walking with a cane. LOL! i know its not a medical problem like hormone imbalance or something like that. i dont know what to tell you, but that we're just going to have to wait for our men to come around like they used to! why are men like this. could a man please answer this question for us and tell us why you do this, we need answers? but girl i hope that what i've tried may work on you. good luck!
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reader, bonym +, writes (13 May 2006):
 My friend, you both knew the age gap when you entered into the relationship so are you sure its the age that is the problem? I dont think the age has anything to do with it, I think you need to question why he has changed towards you. By talking to him, you can find out what the problem is, but in the mean time, MAKE him interested, do something outrageous or different that wil make him see, look, what I have is great. xXx
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