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writes:I feel like I'm in love with my maths teacher and I don't know what to do. I'm quite young and I know it's not legal for me to have an intimate relationship with her but I just can stop this feeling. The last thing I would want is for her to lose her job because of me saying I am only 13 but I don't want to wait until I'm 18 and finished school because she's really nice, caring, funny and attractive woman and will probably be married by then and I wouldn't want to do anything then because she would be happy and I wouldn't want to ruin that. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice I know now how I should go about dealing with this situation, it is most likely I'll find a someone my own age I really like before anything would ever happen between my teacher and I and because of your advice I realise that it is probably not love I'm feeling I'm attracted to her because she is the kind of person that I would like be with that is my own age . Your advice really helped thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2013): You are having a normal crush on an older woman. Crushes of this type are supposed to stay secret, and you tell only your closest friend, or maybe your brother.
You shouldn't tell the teacher; because nothing is really going to happen between you. You might also embarrass you both. The feelings start to fade away, as soon as you pick out a cute girl your own age.
Just keep your mind on your lessons and don't spend too much time daydreaming. Your lessons might fail.
I've crushed on teachers too, even when I was in college. I just kept the feelings to myself. They eventually went away.
You're okay. You're going through puberty. All you can think about right now is being with her somehow. You know in reality, it will never happen. If it did, that would be breaking the law. She wouldn't just lose her job, she would end up in jail. It's considered child-abuse for an adult to have intimate relations with a 13 year-old.
So fantasize after school. Keep your mind on your lessons when in the classroom.
Good luck, buddy!
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