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writes:heyme and my bf are split up now but we are still friends which i like but theres a prob...whenever we are around each other he always wants sex and i dont want to because i feel like im being use,am i??i always so no for a while but then i give in because he gets annoyd with me but the when he gets annoyd thats when i say yes coz im afraid i will lose him as a friend to...what do i do??i dont want to be used but he dont understand how it makes me feel for him 2 always want sex when we are just friends!!i still have feelings for himany advice would be appreciated xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks for your advice..i told him and hes gone!!yey im alot happier now xx
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 Hi,
he's getting all the benefits of the old relationship without any commitment or for that matter any respect towards your feelings.
You have to realise now that this guy is not even friendship material, he is a user.
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reader, mattie90  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 hi hun i think u should sit him down n tell him that we cnt keep doin this if were just guna b friends its not fair 2 u at all n if u still have feelings towards him u shouldnt b doin this either just for the simple fact tht its makin it harder for u 2 for get abt ur past w/him if u still wana b w/him sit him down n tell him ur true feelings he mite understand ok let me kno how things go good luck hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): I would cut all tides with him because if I'm having sex with a man, I'm not his friend. I consider myself being in a relationship with him. Sometimes we have to take risk to lose the man because we as women can sometimes make it to easy for them. If he loves you he will be with you and only you. I know about those feelings for someone and how you feel because the feeling is still there. I still have feelings for my ex, but I'm not going to give him just sex because I love myself to much. It use to hurt me because I couldn't see him, but after a while it goes away.Learn how to love yourself first. It's o.k to still like the sex, but to me your cheating yourself of someone giving you the whole package deal. If it's meant to be, he will not only want sex from you, he will want all of you.
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